Introduction
At Transform FP, we understand that the emotional difficulty of imagining life without a partner is matched only by the practical challenges it might present. As independent Financial Planners, we frequently help couples put thoughtful financial protection in place — so that should the unthinkable happen, they’re confident their loved ones won’t face financial hardship. In this article, Angus Kirk outlines five essential steps you can take to provide your partner with long-term financial security, even in your absence.
Planning for Life’s Future Milestones
Planning for the future as a couple often involves exciting life milestones — buying a home, saving for retirement, or enjoying more time together once children have flown the nest. But responsible planning also means preparing for life’s difficult possibilities, including how one partner would cope financially if the other were no longer there. While it can be an emotional topic to address, taking time to talk about it now — and act on those conversations — can make all the difference in protecting your partner’s lifestyle and choices for years to come.
1. Write a Will — and Update It Regularly
A Will is not just a legal document; it’s your final say in how your assets are distributed. Without one, your estate will be divided according to the UK’s intestacy rules — which may be far from what you’d want. This is especially important if you are not married or in a civil partnership. In these cases, even long-standing “common-law” partners have no automatic legal entitlement to inherit.
Yet even for married couples, a lack of clarity in a Will can cause significant issues. For instance, if your estate is worth more than £270,000 and you have children, your spouse or civil partner is only entitled to the first £270,000 and half the remainder. The rest may go to your children — potentially leaving your partner in a financially compromised position.

“Every couple, regardless of age or marital status, should have a clear and up-to-date will. It’s a foundational part of protecting your partner’s future.”
— Angus Kirk, Independent Financial Planner, Transform FP
2. Complete an Expression of Wishes for Your Pension
Unlike other assets, your pension isn’t automatically covered by your Will. To ensure your partner can benefit from your defined contribution (DC) pension, you’ll need to complete an expression of wishes form. This lets your pension provider know who you’d like to receive the remaining funds if you pass away. It’s not legally binding, but providers will usually follow your wishes unless there’s a good reason not to. You can typically update this online or by requesting a form.
Remember that if you hold multiple pensions, each provider needs its own form. It’s also worth reviewing your nominations periodically — particularly after life events such as marriage, divorce, or the birth of children.
3. Understand Any Defined Benefit Pensions You Hold
Defined benefit (DB) pensions — sometimes called “final salary” schemes — offer guaranteed income in retirement. Many also provide spousal benefits in the event of your death. Depending on the scheme, your partner could receive a percentage of your annual income for life. This could be a vital stream of financial support, especially for those who may not have sufficient pensions of their own.
It’s important to check the scheme’s rules: not all DB pensions automatically offer survivor benefits, and paperwork must often be completed in advance. Some schemes may restrict benefits to legal spouses or civil partners only.

“We regularly review our clients’ DB pension schemes to ensure that survivor benefits are clearly understood and properly in place. It’s an often-overlooked detail that can make a big difference.”
— Shadi Kirk, Independent Financial Planner, Transform FP
4. Consider a Joint Annuity
Purchasing an annuity at retirement is one way to create a guaranteed income. A joint life annuity continues to pay out to your partner after you pass away — either in full or as a percentage of your original income. This type of annuity can provide peace of mind, knowing that your partner will receive ongoing financial support. It’s particularly helpful if other forms of income (such as rental property or dividend payments) would cease upon your death.
While joint annuities typically pay slightly less during your lifetime than single annuities, the added security they offer to your surviving partner can be worth the trade-off.

5. Take Out an Appropriate Life Insurance Policy
Life insurance is one of the most straightforward and effective ways to protect your partner financially. A lump sum payout on death can provide critical cover for ongoing living costs, mortgage repayments, or even future family expenses. There are two main types of policy:
- Term life insurance: Covers you for a specific number of years — useful for protecting against liabilities like a mortgage.
- Whole of life insurance: Runs indefinitely and pays out whenever you pass away. Premiums are usually higher, but it offers long-term certainty.
Make sure your policy is written in trust to avoid potential Inheritance Tax liabilities and ensure quick access to the funds.
Final thoughts: Peace of Mind for the People Who Matter Most
Thinking about death is never easy — but planning for the financial impact is an act of deep care. Whether it’s ensuring your partner can remain in the family home, access your pension, or rely on a stable income after you’re gone, the right financial structures provide certainty in an uncertain time. At Transform FP, we help couples put tailored plans in place so they can live with confidence today — knowing they’ve protected tomorrow. If you’d like a conversation about how to support your partner’s long-term financial security, please don’t hesitate to get in touch.
Important disclaimer: This article is for general information only and does not constitute financial advice. The information is aimed at retail clients only. The value of your investment can go down as well as up and you may not get back the full amount you invested. Past performance is not a reliable indicator of future performance. The Financial Conduct Authority does not regulate estate planning, tax planning, or will writing. We recommend that you speak to a qualified financial planner for advice tailored to your individual circumstances and goals.
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